Deepak Chopra Advice On Relationships

We have been programmed with a belief that if you’ve got a fantastic life and you die, you get an opportunity to go to heaven, which is what the produce heaven is. Anyone’s individual thing. I talked to you, you give me your definition of paradise. You listen to my respect and listen, somebody else are all different. We all are creative vision. I go, after I began to understand and things, first of all, I never thought in spirituality, but the science reveal utilizing quantum physics and epigenetics, that we are a subject, an energy field playing through this body. What I learned through this as first of all, there, there is no such thing as passing of who we are, there’s death of the body, but the body is like a virtual reality soup that an energy field that’s different for each one of us is operating within this body.

My, uh, self receptors on my mobile switch distinguished me as being different from you respond to a unique environmental sign, then yourself receptors. So each of us is receiving like a broadcast that is running. This biology consciousness is running the biology consciousness. Isn’t physical, it is an energy. Because the response was this. The belief that if you do really well and you persevere, and when you die, you are going to visit this place called paradise. And I go consider that we were born into heaven, that we came here to create. That is what we’re doing. We’re creating. And I say, when we are creating it right, paradise on earth this year once we’re developing a wrong battle is here. And all of a sudden, I say, oh my God, do not wait until you perish. That you are going to go to heaven.

You are this to set. This is where you came to make. What do you need to create? Love Corona IRAs. You can create a thing you want. This is creation place. But if you don’t know that your creations are being manipulated, then we become a victim of a world out of control. And yet we were the founders we gave into other people’s beliefs. And then we are producing not with our fantasies and desires. We’re creating with the app. Where is the program taking us right now. The solution is fear. Shut down. Loss of community breakdown of this system. I go, we can learn or not, that is it. And this is a learning moment. Take back your power. You are past, uh, power power-wise beyond any virus that ever existed. You are extremely powerful.

Every human. This is a fact. Every human first seven years is, uh, is download a hypnosis. The mind of a child under seven is in a lower vibrational frequency. When you put wires on a individual’s mind, you read electroencephalograph reading brain activity. A child below seven includes a lower vibration than understanding. It’s called feta. Oh, that is how kids play a tea party with mud pies. But to them, it’s a true thing. A kid rides, a broom, it is a horse it’s that’s theta imagination. Theta is also hypnosis. And the idea is this, before you may become conscious, if you don’t have any programs, what are you going to be aware of? So nature makes the first seven decades, how, what sort of programs are expected to live on this planet? I say, how can you get them? You just watch your, watch your parents, your view, your siblings and your community, as you have to learn how many hundred million rules think about it.

There are rules. I teach an infant, these rules. I say, you do not have to seven years that observant and just download it. Look, this isn’t new. I mean, there is the famous book, rich dad, poor dad, and essentially said, you come from a poor family and you can struggle your whole life and attempt to get rich, but you’re not going to make it. And if you come from a wealthy family, it might be stupid your whole life and make it not because it was thinking, but it had been unconscious behavior that was downloaded from rich families into kids, which can be unconscious. So they’re, they are making the correct moves unconsciously. If they engage their conscious mind and they look stupid, but it is unconscious. And that’s the same thing with poor people, poor individuals have beliefs from the household, oh, you can’t make it. And if that’s the plan, you get the 95% of the day, you’ll sabotage yourself. And that is why poor people stay poor. And rich people stay rich because the programming 95% of our life, this is a fact comes from those programs in the subconscious every day, only about 5 percent of their life. Are you using conscious, which is creative 5%. So your life has been lived, despite the fact that you believe you are living your life. Exactly. And you don’t see it called subconscious below conscious and the Jesuits for 400 years, they had been boasts and people didn’t understand. They say, give me a child until it is seven. And I will show you the man they have been saying that for 400 years. Cause they knew seven years was the program period and 95% of your life after that will be anything that program is.

Oh, so you don’t have to try and think about what happened. The things you enjoy that come into your life, come in because you have a program that supports them. But whatever you struggle with work hard at place a lot of effort into making it happen. Why you are working so hard. Inevitably you have a program that doesn’t support that conclusion and you’re trying to reevaluate the program. So, uh, you don’t need to do a lot of shrink and psychology stuff. Because wherever you’re struggling, necessarily is a program on your subconscious that doesn’t support that destination. You’ve been on the lookout for. The conscious mind is creative and can learn in numerous ways. Read a self-help book, go to a lecture, listen to this program and aware, mind’s likely to get some awareness.
And I go, yeah, but subconscious mind does not learn that way. I go, Ryan. Doesn’t subconscious mind learns in two fundamental ways, obviously hypnosis, which is the first seven decades. And after age seven, how can you put new programs in repetition practice? You need to drive a vehicle? You didn’t loan. Learn how by simply getting into the seat and place the key in. You had to practice driving the vehicle. How many times did you go from a to Zed? Uh, you know, try to go to, is that before you can complete it, once you completed it, you didn’t have to go back and do it again. So two phases you want to train the subconscious mind hypnosis, uh, repetition. That’s bandied about called fake it till you make it. If you’re not a happy person, I say you are interested in being a happy person. Then repeat all of the time. I say, well, you don’t look happy or anything. I’m talking to subconscious. If subconscious gets, I am happy and 95% of your life comes from that. Subconscious. There will be a point when the subconscious got, I am happy. You didn’t have to say it again. It’ll be automatic. Because if you do that daily, it is repetitive. But that’s the that’s. The key part is putting a sticky note on the refrigerator is more like a proposal, but it is not a repetition. Therefore it doesn’t work really well. However, you have to do repetition is a, it’s a habit it is making habit. So you’ve got to do something religiously in the sense of repeating it, repeating it, repeating it to make it work.

If you don’t like the program, you do not like the way it’s turning out. Well, then you can re-program it. And you could find the things you want. The film, the matrix isn’t science fiction. It’s a documentary. This is the whole story of the matrix matrix. You have been programmed. We can have a red pill and get out of the program. Okay? I said, what’s mind wondering? I said, well, your conscious mind could be focused on a task or your conscious mind could go off into a, you know, think about things. Okay? Uh, and the relevance about that is when the conscious mind is remaining in front, you’re a complete control, fantasies, desires, what you want, conscious thoughts, creative you are in control. But the moment your conscious mind takes off into a thought or starts thinking or whatever going on. Okay. So the idea is that, if your mind is wandering, then you’re being run by the subconscious mind. Uh, and it turns out that this is very negative when your mind is straight forward and consciousness, you’re, uh, you’re controlling the car. So I say falling in love was demonstrated biologically to be equivalent to the red pill, because what it does is it keeps you, what do they call mindful? Keeps you conscious. Look, you have been on the lookout for this partner, your entire life. There are now in front of your face. This isn’t the time to go considering, I think it’s intended to be, oh, look what I got right here in front of me. And I say, well, consider it this way. Your life could suck every day, every day, daily, every day. Then you meet this person in 24 hours later.

It’s paradise on earth, four hours later. Oh my God. I am so in love. You know, even the job’s not so bad anymore at the food tastes great. And the music is so far better and love and love and enjoy. I go, what the hell happened? You had all of this negative, negative. And then in one day, you have this paradise on earth. And the answer was, it was taking the red pill. That’s what falling in love is at the moment, you stop playing the program. Now you’re working from conscious mind, which is creative, which by definition is fantasies and desires. What the heck do you want out of your life? If you answer that question, it’s a creative answer. And by definition, it’s conscious. So that your wishes and desires are on your conscious mind and a normal person’s life. 5% of the day, you’re moving toward that.

95 percent of your playing with the program. It was actually 90%, I think is the number 90 percent from conscious mind, 90 percent of the day, you’re now working from creative wishes and wants like, oh look, I said, your life sucked all the way up. And 24 hours of working on fantasies and desires rather than playing the program, turned earth into paradise for you at that moment. Then you go, well, how come the honeymoon doesn’t last I go, because inevitably, you still need to consider things, your occupation, your chores, your requirement’s what would you have to do. And at some point, once you start thinking, then the conscious mind is closed off. And guess what shows up all those behaviours in the subconscious mind that were negative 70% and your partner, remember your spouse and you fall in love, same time.
Both of you operating from conscious mind with fantasies and desires. And all of a sudden you start believing, and then this behaviour shows up.

That was your mother, your father, or anything thing you learned. And your partner’s like, where the hell did that come from? Who are you? It was like, where did that come from? I have not, you know, we’ve been in his honeymoon. I’ve never seen that behaviour. If you want to play that behavior on the first date, then maybe we would not have another day, but now it shows up. And I say, why did it appear? Because I ceased being mindful. Okay. So how do you teach people to keep the honeymoon living is to change the subconscious program. And it’s simple for reason, reasoning, a straightforward conscious mind wishes and needs, subconscious mind schedule. Well, what if you took the fantasies and wants and made those programs, then guess what?

You don’t even need to think about it. You will automatically 95% of the day be playing behaviors to manifest Joe’s fantasies and desires. So reprogramming the subconscious with fantasies and desires means that you don’t even need to consider it. So when you fall in love, the cocktail of chemicals coming out of your brain are things that improve your vitality, your life make you healthier, happier, and joy. I go the identical person. If they open their eyes and see something which scares them, none of those love chemicals will come from the brain. At that moment, stress, hormones and inflammatory agents are going to be released by the brain. All of a sudden, I said, well, did you alter the chemical composition, the culture medium. I move, yeah. Moderate control the destiny of the cells, the composition of your blood controls, the destiny of your cells, the composition of blood, based on the picture on your mind, change the image you alter the chemistry.

Almost everybody has the exact wishes and desires to be in love, to be happy, to be healthy, to be peaceful. That is a standard wishing desire of everyone. And if we all lived with those wishes and desires, this world would change overnight. We would have harmony. We would have peace. We would have character a community environment, but until we change those subconscious programs and we become victims of the app and not creators of our life. And when this is known and people can say, wait, I have a choice. You can play the programs you’re playing, or you could rewrite those apps and take power back. And that is our destination.

And science is revealing a completely different understanding of who we are. We’ve been programmed to be victims and yet science and quantum physics as well as the new science of epigenetics, especially show that we’re not victims, but we’re creators. That would be our way of life. And in this regard, while I talk about this a lot, there is a notion that pictures present a thousand words and a cartoon really represents millions of words. And that’s why I’m so excited and in regards to afterschool, because afterschool has taken the complexity of the words and made it in the simplicity of the pictures. And that’s how we can learn more knowledge, more power.